Travel To Tanzania

Visiting us in Tanzania.

One of the first things that may come to your mind when you think of Traveling to Tanzania,  is the fact that it is on the other side of the world. So, so, far away. This is true, but it isn't as crazy as it sounds. Most people get discouraged at the thought of even trying to make a trip like that. I have heard," Oh I would have to get a passport or get shots, I couldn't do all that." If you just plan ahead and take it step by step, it really isn't that bad. When we travel back to America our next furlough, (Lord Willing) we will be traveling with 2 adults, and 4 kids. Their ages; 6, 5, 3, and 1. So trust me when I say that if I can do it, anyone can. If you are single or retired, and have the time to spend, then why not spend your time doing something that will change your life forever. There is just something about Tanzania that gets into peoples hearts and stays.

Just think about it. :-)

Bonnie

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Confessions of a Missionary Mom... Part 1

 
... I feel Guilty !

I think that all moms go through guilt trips during their parenting years. Some feel guilty because they don't spend enough time with the kids, some may feel guilty because there kids eat too much fast food. Take your pick. I think that as women, it is in us to apply self guilt and try to make ourselves feel bad. Well as a mom in the mission field you still feel guilty but in different ways. For example...

~ I feel bad because my kids don't eat the crust on their toast, and I know that there are probably some kids in the neighborhood that may only get one meal a day. But I don't want to force my kids to eat the crust, since I don't like to eat it. And I don't want to just eat it because of guilt.

~ I feel guilty because my kids play with toys that we have bought from the local market that are usually half broken, or torn, or stuffed with trash. The toys are usually Goodwill rejects that are sent here from the U.S. or UK.  But then I feel worse because their rooms are filled with toys and they have so much more than other children here.

~ I feel bad because my kids get so excited to eat yogurt, raisins, crackers, or cereal. We usually just have these as a special treat. They don't eat a lot of candy or cookies. I would love more "junk food" but it has to be imported and it is just too expensive.

~ I fell guilty that I am exposing my kids to more health risk factors, and get so stressed out when one of them starts running a fever. I hate having to take them to the clinic for a finger prick to see if they have malaria. I just wish that I could say, "Oh it's just a virus". Instead I have to wonder... malaria, typhoid, polio, bacteria, or virus. ??? The list goes on for stomach problems.

~ I feel bad that I have to be careful with the kids and the water. I have to make sure they are not drinking the bath water or brushing their teeth from the faucet.

BUT THEN...

I remind myself that we are not completely Tanzanian, but we don't live in America either. There is a balance, and it's finding that balance that keeps you going.

~ Yes, there are hungry kids in Tanzania, but we help just about every one of them that we see that truly needs help.

~ We do give away lots of toys. If the kids get a new toy then they have to give at least 1 toy away.

~ I remind myself that not having junk food is a good thing. Even if I really miss it. And that it is a good thing that they appreciate little things like crackers and cereal.

~ I think back at the times when the kids have been sick and remember that the sickest they have ever been, was when we were visiting America. And I read other parents facebook post and see that their kids seem to get sick more often than mine do.

~ And when it comes to the drinking water... I guess I don't mind so much that my kids see clean drinking water a luxury. It helps them to think outside of the box, and shows them how many people in the world actually live.

So yes, I feel guilty as times, but there is a balance. There can be two views to one situation, and I like to try to choose the positive side of things. I think this is important for all moms. Sometimes this guilt helps us to strive to be a better mom, or it keeps us from being insensitive to the need of others. The trick is to channel our thoughts. When we let our negative thoughts bring us down, we are not doing ourselves, or our families any good. We all need to stay positive.
A Cheerful Heart is Good Medicine. Proverbs 17:22

P.S.
There is something that I do feel guilty about that I just can't get over. Maybe you can help....
This week I was being brave and tasting a Tanzanian delicacy....roasted grasshoppers. Well, it was dinner time and the kids were hungry.... and before I knew it, they had their hand in the bowl... chowing down... by the hand full. They just kept eating them like chips. Now if I was an American mom, I would be totally grossed out, and accuse myself of child abuse... but if I was a Tanzanian mom, I would be proud that I could share such a special treat with my kids... Soooo, I am not sure yet how I should handle this one. :-) Any Ideas ?

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Kids Are Kids

Have you ever noticed that kids are just kids. They can have fun with just about anything. Some of the greatest memories of my childhood are the things that I did, just being silly. I want my children to grow up with similar memories, of just having fun and playing outdoors. I remember catching fireflies, making mud pies, swimming, playing in the woods, and jumping on the trampoline. No matter where we live in the world, I want my kids to just grow up just being kids.

So for those of you who may be curious as to how our kids can be kids in Tanzania, here are some pictures.

 

Riding the neighborhood Donkey

Making Mud Pies

Playing Ball

                

                                                       Rock Climbing

Face Painting

Catching Grasshoppers

 Splashing in Mud Puddles

Playing in the Rain on a Warm Day

Playing with Sticks

Picking Wild Berries, and Eating Them

And Just Having the Chance to Run Around and Be Kids

I encourage mom's everywhere to not let your kids grow up to fast. Don't let others pressure you into thinking that your young children should be acting "grown up" by a certain age. There is a time for school, and there is a time for chores, but there is also a time to
Have fun and Make Memories !!!

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Homemade Hot Sauce

My Husband Is Awesome !!!

One of the things that we miss about America is the Mexican Food. We Love hot sauce, and chips. Well this week my hubby made some homemade hot sauce, and Canned it. It was even nice enough to make some mild, and some hot. He likes it Hot ! The Gee Family in Arusha previously gave us the canning supplies and we finally put it to use. The canning part is nice because it preserves the sauce for a long shelf life. We also had homemade tortilla chips with it. Yumm!!!

I couldn't help but think about the people in the nearby villages, and how helpful the canning process would be for them. Their selection of fresh fruits or vegetables is very limited. For those living in town, there is the central market, with a wide variety of foods. The problem with canning is that Tanzania doesn't have the jars and lids for this type of work. To actually can, all it takes is a fire, pot taller than the jars, and water. The trick is having the water boiling a few inches above the jars.

We have killed our own chickens, butchered pigs, kept a garden, and now canning, sometimes I really do feel like Little House on the Prairie.

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